“Freedom”

I’ve been aware of how often Jonathan Franzen mentions freedom in his highly touted new novel, and how often responsibility kicks in. “Freedom,” the tome I’ve been reading while flying both directions cross-country these past few weeks, is partly about competition in relationships, in families, one-upmanship in love. It’s sad too.  I read somewhere recently that it ends happily, so I want to extend the last 150 pages as long as possible. Then be happy and totally satisfied with the finale.

Do we Americans have too much freedom, which contributes to be too much greed, selfishness and extreme wealth for the few?

In the book,  “The reason the system can’t be overthrown in this country,” Walter said, is all about freedom. The reason the free market in Europe is tempered by socialism is that they’re not so hung up on personal liberties.”

Everyone in the United States wants their privileges, their just due, their right to dump on everybody else. And why should we care about the homeless, the poor, the lost?

If some folks have had good luck, or their parents worked hard and left them tons of money, I can’t fathom why those people may not care about anybody else. Read: Tea Partiers and narrow-minded ilk of any stripe. Protect what’s theirs. Isn’t that freedom for some?

A dear friend once asked me, “Why can’t we have a benevelant dictator?”

“Well, that’s not the American way,” I told her, American history teacher that I was.

Hey, I know this is serious stuff to think about on the weekend. And my head isn’t on straight after all the flying, being stranded in airports, and being on vacation. All I know is that giant super markets afford way too much freedom for me. Grocery shopping with Ethan in the Ellsworth Hannaford, there were about 10 feet of different types of instant coffee: one-cup Hazelnut, fusion decaf/caffeinated, Sumatran or Chilean dark roast, soy-milk infused instant latte, to imagine only a few.

At least let’s put one person in charge of coffee.

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Geography of the Heart

It’s foggy and cold outside, but I’m warm in the Common Good Cafe, gazing at the ocean at Seawall in Southwest Harbor, Maine. Tomorrow I’ll return to sunny Tucson. I moved from winter ice, snow and darkness on Mount Desert Island to the  Southwestern Saguaro Desert eight years ago. No more black ice driving across Eagle Lake Road coming from a movie at Reel Pizza in Bar Harbor. Woo hoo!

A new career, new friends and a new love. How many other women in their 50s have done the same? Our hearts seem to crave change, but I was struck by a comment I heard recently: “Change is overrated.”

I haven’t changed. I’ve evolved.

Eight years ago, I quit my teaching job at Mount Desert Island High School, took off for Danskinetics/yoga dance teacher training at Kripalu in Lenox, Mass., then drove cross-country  with my most precious belongings.

Arriving in Tucson at sunset on Sept. 25 — my daughter Brook’s 25th birthday — I quietly said to myself, “No matter what happens, I did it.”

On my Facebook page, my current city is Tucson, Arizona; my hometown is Southwest Harbor, Maine. My two homes/lives continually merge. Last Saturday we celebrated Brook’s 33rd birthday here, all under one roof, coming from different lives, sharing the same history.

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Tucson Festival of Books #1

Once a teacher — or a bookseller — always one. I’ve been out of the book-selling world and children’s literature loop for 13 years now. If I’ve ever had any real expertise, it was in children’s books.

So when the magnificent Tucson Festival of Books (http://tucsonfestivalofbooks.org/) began two years ago, I had to be part of it. For the 2011 festival I’m chair of the memoir/history/biography committee. We’re all volunteers and our little group — one of around 25 subcommittees of the parent authors committee — are knowledgeable about local history, well-read and passionate about books.

I invited many of my author pals to participate in the 2011 festival but didn’t get very far (I’ll talk about the ones who are coming another time).

Me, I’m still a fervent child of the ’60s, but am willing to let younger folks march, sing “We Shall Overcome,” and like this morning on my way to work, yell out the window to kids and  teachers standing on the corner of River Road and Dodge, holding up peace signs and cheering.

“Hey you guys, yay social activists!” Right after I said it, I thought, “Hmm…maybe they don’t know what a social activist is. A teachable moment. They were young.

At a journalism conference I attended in June, I met a newspaper editor from Minneapolis. I told him about the upcoming third annual book festival on the University of Arizona campus and he gave me Mark Rudd’s e-mail address. Who, you ask? Rudd is the author of “Underground: My Life with SDS and the Weathermen.” I get to moderate “Right on! Far Out! Looking Back at the ’60s.” Look it up.

To be continued at a later date…

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Walktalking

Ever noticed how ideas flow more easily when you’re moving? Having your mouth going helps too; the words come out without thinking about them. Why not have business meetings walking along the Rillito, hiking up the road in Sabino Canyon, or wherever you live? You don’t have to get dressed up and it’s free. You can’t take notes? Bring a tiny tape recorder. Make an agenda — that would be one creative question you want to talk about with a friend or colleague. If anything comes up that’s worth remembering, trust that you will.

And now there’s proof that exercise helps thinking. Apparently, only 20 minutes walking before a test– even if a kid is otherwise unfit or obese — can improve her score (not that I care about scores, but it shows that your brain is functioning). http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/09/15/phys-ed-can-exercise-make-kids-smarter/?src=me&ref=homepage

An added benefit is that walking clearly helps your mood. Why do I find myself humming after strolling for 15 minutes in the desert? (Maybe I’m happy that I haven’t stepped on a rattlesnake, which happened to my friend Penny once).

Watch for my story about Steve Stone, a 70-year-old exercise physiologist, in the Oct. 1 Arizona Jewish Post. He says that “mind and body are the same thing,” and there’s this misconception about each influencing the other. And, if you hold stuff in, he says, you don’t feel the sensations in your body, which thwarts emotions. This all makes me think of James Brown belting out, “I feel Good.”

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Getting past hatred

My Jewish past is complicated. I was raised hypocritical Orthodox. My mother went to synagogue on Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the the year, to see what the other women were wearing. This didn’t sit well with me.

Friends who also aren’t practicing Jews get all huffy about Israel. “Aren’t you a Zionist?” they ask. It’s complicated. Now there’s this video I just watched with Nicolas Kristoff on nytimes.com. I’m so impressed with Rabbis for Human Rights. Watch it, you’ll see.

http://video.nytimes.com/video/2010/09/14/opinion/1248068929638/rabbis-for-human-rights.html

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“Divided Kingdom?”

Once upon a time, I owned a children’s bookstore.  My two children grew up at Oz Books in Southwest Harbor, Maine, which I owned from 1982 to 1997. In a way, it seemed that we grew up together reading children’s books. In high school I read a lot of science fiction, abandoning that genre during the activist ’60s. Plenty was going on in real life; American political culture became my more typical reading theme, along with a novel or two on the side.

Last year, I read British author Rupert Thomson’s “Divided Kingdom,” which I call political science fiction. Responding to a country’s decline into consumerism, turpitude, racism and violence, the powers that be establish in its place four independent republics. Citizens are assigned to live out their lives in one, based on their nature that’s determined by Shakespeare’s four humors:  sanguine, phlegmatic, choleric, and melancholic. The book’s civil-servant protagonist frequents all of the republics, affording the reader a terrifying view of life in separatist societies.

Fiction or possible reality?  With so much political divisiveness in the United States today I worry for the future of our democracy. I recall leading a discussion on George Orwell’s “1984” at the Southwest Harbor Public Library in the 1970s. There were doubters in the audience, but who would have believed the prevalence of technology in our 21st century daily lives?

To combat my residual terror I pick up novels that depict family relationships. This summer, back in Maine, I read three affecting novels set on the Maine coast: “Olive Kitteridge” by Elizabeth Strout; “Red Hook Road” by Ayelet Waldman; and “Cost” by Roxanna Robinson. I heard Robinson speak at the Southwest Harbor Library. She reminded me that if politics can’t bring us together, our common humanity — understood through words — still can.

This piece first appeared in the “Books that Made a Difference” section of the Arizona Jewish Post (Sept. 3, 2010), azjewishpost.com.

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Read my face?

OK, “Lie To Me,” the TV show premiering on Fox for its third season on Wednesday, Nov. 10 at 8 p.m. (EST), can get kind of raunchy, so what, we’re all grown-ups here. I love the beginning of each program. Faces morph from gender to age to ethnicity, all exhibiting expressions that can be read by Dr. Paul Ekman. He’s the consultant for the show who spent years traveling around the world documenting how our faces divulge what we’re feeling — anger, surprise, guilt… What’s most fascinating to me is that these expressions are cross-cultural, true for rich American white males of a certain age or nomad children in Mongolia. Can you tell if someone’s telling the truth or what the subtext is in a conversation? If I were younger I’d study with Ekman or go into neurophysiology. Great stuff!

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Citizen Journalism?

There’s no such thing. Citizen bloggers, OK, I can live with that. Don’t we have enough media mishmash already? No one is objective, not even we journalists, not even social studies teachers or historians. But good journalists are aware. Who do we interview? Do we give a mix of opinions? Too many so-called “citizen journalists” are spinning opinion as truth. Blog away but don’t presume to know the truth.

I recall former high school students insisting something nutty they heard on a radio talk show was factual. “I heard it on Michael Savage,”one student blurted out when I asked her to cite her source.

And Wikipedia isn’t a reliable source either.

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